Tuesday, October 20, 2026

Week 42 (Oct. 15-21): A Life Compared to Mine - #52Ancestors

Unlike your ancestors, you will probably never have to: 

1. Make all of your own clothes
Although craft and fabric stores still offer a wide variety of cloth, patterns, and thread for the purpose of creating clothing, for most people sewing is just a hobby to supplement a store-bought wardrobe.  In the past, though, every garment had to be hand-sewn, at least until the sewing machine and some mass-produced clothing was introduced in the mid-1800s. In fact, many families would have sewn all of their own clothes well into the 20th century. Of course, those with money often employed others to do the work for them – but the task of ordering fabrics, choosing designs and undertaking measurements would have still been much more time-consuming.

2. Travel by ocean liner, steamboat, or horse-and-buggy
If you get frustrated with the length of your daily commute, imagine how your great-great grandmother felt when it came time to travel from her farm into town in a horse-drawn wagon or by foot, or spend days or weeks on dangerous roads and boats to visit family, or move to a new place.  Before the spread of airliners in the 1950s the only way across the ocean was spending weeks on a ship, and travel was costly as well as time consuming.

3. Correspond with those you love entirely by mail
Years ago the only way to connect with loved ones was through a hand written letter that could easily take weeks - or months if travelling overseas - to arrive at its destination. That was the reality for your ancestors.

4. Read about your postal tardiness in the newspaper
Home mail delivery has had a relatively short life. Years ago, mail was sent from post office to post office, and only delivered elsewhere for an extra fee. That’s why you’ll sometimes see notices in 1800s-era newspapers warning a list of local folks to pick up their mail soon or risk it being sent to a “dead letters” department.

5. Sit for a formal portrait
Genealogists cherish the brittle old tintypes and cabinet cards of our ancestors, with their rigidly posed and unsmiling subjects. It won’t be long, though, before our descendants equally cherish our own (often-awkward) family portraits, because sitting for a formal family photo has largely become a thing of the past. Why herd the entire crew to a stuffy studio when you can just use a selfie stick to capture a digital image? Unless you’re printing and framing (or at least digitally preserving) these treasures for future generations, the classic family portrait may cease to exist.

6. Wear a corset
Remember that scene in Gone With the Wind when Scarlett holds on for dear life to her bedpost as Mammy forcefully tugs the strings of her corset until Scarlett achieves her famous 17-inch waist? Corsets were a common component of women’s fashion for more than 500 years–until the early 1900s, when medical professionals finally put an end to the painful practice by announcing the health risks of shifting internal organs and restricting breathing.

7. Use an Icebox
Before we had the fridge ice was harvested from colder areas and shipped for storage in specially constructed ice houses. Homeowners could pick up or request delivery of ice blocks to their homes, where the blocks were kept in wooden or metal boxes lined with straw or sawdust. In fact, ice boxes were common into the 1930s and beyond. It was the only way to keep food cold and prevent it spoiling.

8. Let blood
Bloodletting (thankfully) went out of fashion in the 1800s, but prior to that, a bad headache or practically any other ailment may have led to your physician cutting into a vein and letting a few pints of blood drain out to cure your ills. Today’s researchers believe that excessive bloodletting led to the deaths of King Charles II in 1685 and U.S. President George Washington in 1799 - and many, many others.

9. Die from TB, smallpox, measles, yellow fever or cholera
Thanks to improved sanitation and health care many diseases that shortened the life spans of our ancestors have been eradicated. Today the average worldwide life expectancy stands at a robust 72 years, compared to the 30- to 40-year expectation of our 18th and 19th century predecessors.

10. Wait days or weeks to hear the latest news
These days, instant notifications and “breaking news” banners on our various screens alert us to what’s happening in the next town or across the globe within minutes. But before radios and televisions, news traveled through word-of-mouth, mail, and newspapers–at a significant delay for those in rural communities. Imagine not knowing about the death of a family member, the election of a president, or a declaration of war for weeks. 

11. Use an outhouse at home
Portable public toilets may come close, but they’re not constructed of splintery wood, filled with spiders and situated in our backyards. And while we often associate outhouses with fun camping trips and iconic homesteads, the reality of sewage disposal before modern plumbing was anything but pleasant. Chamber pots  are also thankfully no longer a necessity.

12. Manage a funeral and burial
As if the grief of losing a loved one wasn’t enough, our ancestors were once tasked with preparing bodies for viewing (usually in a home’s living area or parlour) and digging and closing the grave in the family or town cemetery.

13. Employ child labor
As children, our ancestors were often awoken at daybreak to work on the family farm, help with daily chores, and perhaps even report for duty at a factory or a mine. Many families relied on the extra income a child might be able to earn or the extra labor they could provide to a cottage industry or farm.  Older children might also be expected to stay at home to look after younger siblings while their mother went out to work.

14. Have dental work without pain relief
Imagine having a tooth extracted with no pain relief. Modern dental care was unknown to our ancestors, and the only remedy for badly decayed teeth was extraction, often with little provision for numbing the pain.

15. Travel away from family and friends forever
While many of us today will travel far from home to make a new life, we have the ability, in most cases, of visiting home and family again quite easily. But for many of our ancestors, a big move meant saying goodbye to family forever. It was a steep price to pay for a chance at a better future, but many did it. 

Yes, my ancestors' lives were very different compared to mine.

Thursday, October 15, 2026

Family Tree UK Magazine November 2026

The latest issue of Family Tree UK magazine is now available free online for Campaspe Library members via our subscription to Libby eMagazines.


Inside this month's issue : 

  • English heritage sites awarded for preserving ‘everday histories’
  • A history of Holkham House
  • First exhibitors announced for Family Tree Live
  • New display recalls Churchill’s gardener
  • Webinar explores genealogy and care of older people
  • Childhood friends discover they are sisters
  • ‘Bayeux around Britain’ celebrates Tapestry tour
  • Both ends of the story : who was John Leach?
  • An Odyssey around the genetic genealogy of the Y
  • Highlands and Islands ancestors : heritage, history, resources
  • Getting started in DNA testing
  • Part 6 life at Searsons Farm
  • Plague in Eyam : collective sacrifice, personal tragedy
  • Traditions and tall tales
  • Bread for shaving brush and socks: a grandfather's war diary
  • Diary dates
  • And more... 

 


Tuesday, October 13, 2026

Week 41 (Oct 8-14): What the Timeline Shows - #52Ancestors

Genealogy is, sadly, full of mistakes, and they are oh so easy to make, and often if you look at the timeline of an ancestor's story the mistakes are obvious.

In an earlier post I listed some of the things to keep in mind to help spot obvious errors - and I have seen all of these in online trees : 

  • Children cannot be born before their parents. 
  • Children cannot be born to a mother who is 6 years old.  Or 94 years old.  
  • Children are highly unlikely to be born to a father who is 89 years old.  While this MAY be biologically possible, it is unlikely and deserves a bit of fact checking. 
  • A child cannot be christened 2 months before they are born. 
  • A woman cannot marry 3 years after she has died. 
  • A man cannot enlist in the army 5 years after he has died.

The timeline shows the errors.

Recently I discovered a transcribed record in an online database that illustrated an impossible timeline.  The record for the baptism of Hannah May below leapt out at me when I first located it.  Why??  Check the birth and baptism dates again.  According to this record Hannah was born 17 August 1796 but baptised 6 weeks earlier on 9 July 1796.

Something has been transcribed incorrectly in this record.  Possibly the dates are transposed and Hannah was born in July and baptised in August.  Possibly one of the months was transcribed incorrectly.  With no original image to check, I will need to dig further to find out.  It is clear, however, that a mistake has been made somewhere and has not been picked up in the transcription process.  The timeline shows.

Friday, October 9, 2026

Who Do You Think You Are Magazine November 2026

The latest issue of Who Do You Think You Are magazine is now available free online for Campaspe Library members via our subscription to Libby eMagazines.

Inside this month's issue : 

  • All About That Place returns 
  • TheGenealogist adds records to mark anniversary of Great Fire of London
  • ‘Nationally significant’ wall paintings discovered in house restoration
  • Findmypast adds Southwark marriage and banns records to its collection
  • Proof of identity of Joshua Reynolds’ servant found
  • Tyranny in the Workhouse
  • New projects and volunteers 
  • How to use 'The Voices of the Victorian Poor'
  • From Burma to Bangalore
  • What is a Unit War Diary?
  • Liverpool's slave trade
  • Researching Coal Mining Disasters
  • Surname research
  • More great websites
  • Merchant Navy Pension Records 
  • And more... 

 


Monday, October 5, 2026

Week 40 (Oct 1-7): A Moment of Courage - #52Ancestors

While there are many stories of courage in my family history, the one which leaves to most lasting impression on me is that of my great-grandmother Eliza Pummeroy (nee Beseler).  

Eliza was born in 1871 in Learmonth, Victoria to Edward Beseler and Emma (nee Flower).  She married Alfred Pummeroy in1895 in St Kilda, where Alfred worked as a plasterer.  They had four children before Alfred suddenly became ill with pneumonia and died on 6 Feb 1901, leaving Eliza with 4 young children and in a desperate situation.

The family lived in rented housing and had little by way of savings.  With her children to look after, the eldest 4 years old and deaf and mute, the youngest (my grandfather William) only 2 months old, Eliza was unable to do much by way of paid work.  She took in washing to make a little money, and was given 3 shillings a week by the local Ladies Benevolent Society.  It wasn't enough for them to survive.

In a moment of courage a month after her husband's sudden death, Eliza took the step of applying to the local court for help, knowing her risked having her children removed from her custody and placed in an orphanage, something she was adamant she did not want.  She stood before 3 magistrates, all men, and made an appeal for help.  The judges hearing the case awarded her 10 shillings from the poor box and committed the children to the department, with the recommendation they be handed back to their mother.

This appeal was reported in several newspapers.  Two reported the case with a fair amount of detail, including the fact that the children all appeared clean and well cared for, while a third much briefer article gave a somewhat different impression, especially with the heading 'Neglected Children'.

Prahran Telegraph, Sat 9 March 1901, p3.

The Argus, Sat 9 March 1901, p15.

The Herald, Fri 8 March 1901, p5.

A moment of courage indeed!

Sunday, September 27, 2026

Week 39 (Sept. 24-30): What Wasn't Written Down - #52Ancestors

I have blogged several times over the past few years about the importance of family historians recording their own significant events for inclusion in their family history, to be handed down to future generations.  While we research our family history we often forget to include current events as a part of that history.  

In 2020 the world experienced a historic global pandemic, with many of us moving in and out of lockdowns and various restrictions on our daily lives as the world struggled to limit the spread and impact of Covid-19.  Like many I was stood down from my job, saw businesses close and contacts restricted, and in the small community where I live, unforgettably saw armed police restricting travel across the state border.  I spent my 50th birthday in lockdown, isolated at home.

While many of my memories of the pandemic restrictions, which flowed on into 2021, are stressful, there were also many positives.  So many people came together to keep each other going.  Online shopping boomed and the concept of 'click and collect' became (and remains) common.  In the genealogical community meetings and conferences went online and access to many digitised records were relaxed to make research from home easier.  The idea of working from home became much more common in many industries.  During this time I did my best to record my experiences and feelings, both positive and negative.

Hard on the heels of 2 years of Covid lockdowns, 2022 saw my home area suffer the worst floods in living memory.  While my home itself was not impacted, many friends saw their homes flood, roads and highways were cut, access to services cut, shops closed and like many I came under an evacuation order.  

We watched the Murray River flood parkland, the water creeping closer and closer, flooding homes and breeching levies like the one behind the library where I work - see the photo below.  As the water rose the community came together to frantically sandbag homes and businesses, another wonderful show of community spirit in the face of a crisis.

These are memories that need to be written down and recorded as part of our family history.  We have all lived through a global pandemic and lived through or witnessed a number of historic events in recent years.  Recording our memories of such major events should be a part of our family history records, for the generations that come after us.

Then there are the smaller events of family significance.  A birthday, anniversary, funeral, graduation, family reunion and so on.  These need to be recorded and added to your family story.

So please, become your own storyteller and record your memories.  Get it written down.

Friday, September 25, 2026

Family Tree UK Magazine October 2026

The latest issue of Family Tree UK magazine is now available free online for Campaspe Library members via our subscription to Libby eMagazines.


Inside this month's issue : 

  • Are the names on your tree as unusual as these examples?
  • NRS asks for views on proposed fee changes
  • Changes & updates to the BNA user experience
  • New exhibition explores childhood experiences of war
  • DNA Club news
  • Commonwealth marriages : the separation of church and state
  • Hidden figures : the challenge of finding female ancestors in the official records
  • Everything you need to go back further
  • Discover the history of the Regimental Marches of the British Army
  • The naming of names : using forenames in family history research
  • Extra, extra! Read all about it!
  • Beyond the Hundred Acre Wood : childhood in 1920s Britain 
  • What can Gedmatch do for you?
  • What can A DIARY tell us about the... 
  • And more... 

 


Wednesday, September 23, 2026

Ancestry adds historic Berkshire records

Ancestry has digitised over four million Berkshire parish records in a major books to its online resources.
The website has added four new record sets: 2,055,425 baptism, marriage and burial records spanning 1538-1812 ; 1,470,200 baptism records spanning 1813-1925 ; 546,515 banns and marriage records spanning 1813-1941 ; and 325,233 burial records spanning 1813-1998.
The record sets include digitised copies of the original parish registers from the Royal Berkshire Archives.
These records are now accessible at Campaspe Library free via Ancestry Library Edition.

Monday, September 21, 2026

Week 38 (Sept. 17-23): A Document with Personality - #52Ancestors

I do love wills - they are often documents with so much personality!  They are fascinating documents and (potentially) give so much information about the family of the individual who wrote it as well as about the individual themselves.

I have had great luck with wills in my family history research.  They have provided me with invaluable clues - the surnames of married daughters, which children have survived a parent, details of property held and much more.  Getting the most out of the wills I have found has sent me chasing details of executors and witnesses - often relatives, as such a task was not given to strangers.  Who was each person mentioned, and how did they relate to the originator of the will?

My favourite will is that of my great great grandfather David Mulholland, who died in 1902.  The will itself is quite brief and names his wife and surviving children, and it is definitely a document with personality.

Original handwritten will of David Mulholland
A transcription of the will reads :

This is the last will and testament of me David Mulholland of Eurobin near Kilsythe in the Colony of Victoria Farmer.
I give devise and bequeath unto my wife Eliza Jane my dwelling house and furniture and all the land around the house to the railway fence for her life time and each of the two sons pay her five shillings per week for her life time the sons names are Henry and James.  My son David will receive fifty pounds cash.  James will get the homestead paddock and the paddock known as O’Donnell and also the house and land after Mrs Mulholland’s death.  Mrs Mulholland to do with as she likes with the furniture.  Henry is to have all the land across the Ovens River known as Watonga and all the cattle are to be equally divided between James and Henry.  My daughter Mary (Mrs Pape) one shilling and my daughter Ellen (Mrs Stoddart) one shilling.  My daughter Jane twenty pounds.  My daughter Priscilla (Mrs Clark) ten pounds and the balance of the cash to be divided in equal parts between James and Henry after all my debts are paid. 

Considering that David had over 600 pounds in the bank at the time of his death, the daughters who received a shilling each might feel a little slighted, as might his wife who gets to dwell in the farmhouse for the rest of her life but does not own it, and receives 10 shillings a week from the two sons who farmed the land with her husband but she has no money of her own left to her by him.

Also a source of extremely useful information is the probate record attached to the will, especially the Affidavit of Statement which contains a statement of assets and liabilities - basically a list of what David owned and how much it was worth.  The first page of this list (4 pages long in total) details the three parcels of land he owned - subsequent pages listed crops, livestock, farming implements, carriages, harness and saddlery, furniture, cash on hand and money in the bank.  Any debts owed to David, and any debts he owed others were also listed.  All fascinating information and a great insight into the family.
Page 1 of David Mulholland's Statement of Assets and Liabilities
David Mulholland owned 3 parcels of land that formed his farm, and the Statement of Assets and Liabilities details each, and gives quite a bit of information.  For the first parcel of land, it tells us the following details : All those pieces of freehold land containing 132 acres 3 roods and 1 perch more or less being special allot. 6H, allotments 7A and 7B of section 25 and part of allotment B5, Parish of Barrwedgee County of Bogong fenced partly post and two rail partly rail and wire 40 acres partly cleared remainder used for grazing with 3 room stone house with three weather board rooms and outhouses erected thereon municipal assessment 33 pounts per annum valued at 665 pounds.

Subsequent pages give details of the various livestock David owned, various cattle (some noted as being in poor condition), a very old bull, a pony mare, a pig - so much detail in a document with so much personality.

Wednesday, September 16, 2026

Who Do You Think You Are Magazine October 2026

The latest issue of Who Do You Think You Are magazine is now available free online for Campaspe Library members via our subscription to Libby eMagazines.

Inside this month's issue : 

  • NAI microsites remain offline for essential updates 
  • Fold3 adds US WW1 records
  • Findmypast adds Royal Navy Museums records
  • Ancestry adds Isle of Man parish records
  • Ripon Workhouse Museum reopens
  • The wrong side of the blanket
  • Away from home - Adopted, fostered, orphan, nurse child
  • This is your life - using photographs to remember past generations
  • My parents lived through turbulent times in the Middle East 
  • Modern Marriage Records - researching marriages in England and Wales after civil registration
  • Irish Research 
  • Parish Burial Records 
  • Do I have the right Sarah Kaye...

 


Monday, September 14, 2026

Week 37 (Sept. 10-16): A Small Detail I Love - #52Ancestors

One of my favourite family photos is the one below of my father Peter with his siblings and their father, Frank Walter Green.  Dad was one of 10 children and to the best of my knowledge it is the only photo of all 10 siblings together, which makes the scanned image I have even more precious.  

A small detail I love is that one of the brothers has a beer bottle balanced on his head!  That would be Ernest, known to all as Squib, the second eldest of the Green siblings.  

If there are any relatives out there who have another photo of all 10 siblings together, I would love to hear from you and am happy to share copies!

Friday, September 11, 2026

September 11, 25 Years On

It is hard to believe it is 25 years since the September 11 terrorist attacks. I doubt anyone will ever forget the events of the September 11 attacks, where they were and what they were doing when they heard the news:

• At 8:46 a.m., AA 11 slammed into the North Tower of the World Trade Center.
• At 9:03 a.m., UA175 slammed into the South Tower.
• At 9:37 a.m., AA77 crashed into the Pentagon’s west side.
• At 9:59 a.m., the South Tower imploded and fell, raining debris and ash on the city.
• At 10:03 a.m., UA93 crashed into a field in the Pennsylvania countryside.
• And at 10:29 a.m., the North Tower collapsed from the top down. A cloud of ash turned day to night in the narrow streets of lower Manhattan.

In those terrible moments between 8:46 a.m. and 10:29 a.m., nearly 3,000 men, women and children lost their lives.  The youngest was two. The oldest was 85. 

Where I live in Australia, the clock is 14 hours ahead of New York.  So at the time of the first attack, it was 10:46pm my time.  I was already asleep.  Like much of the rest of Australia, I woke up to the news of the attacks. 

My family heard the news on the radio at 7:00am - there had been a terrorist attack in the US and the World Trade Centre in New York had been hit by a hijacked plane.  We rushed to turn on our TV.  As the picture came on, the first thing we saw was a replay of the second plane hitting the south tower.  For several minutes we weren't sure if this was live, or had happened several hours ago.  Then we saw the towers fall.

I was late for work that day.

In the library where I work, we dug out an old TV from our storeroom and set it up out in the public area of the building, keeping the news on all day.  People spoke in more hushed voices than usual.  Everyone was shocked.

25 years later, the world still remembers.

Thursday, September 10, 2026

Family Tree US Magazine September/October 2026

The latest issue of Family Tree US magazine is now available free online for Campaspe Library members via our subscription to Libby eMagazines. 

Inside this month's issue : 

  • The Ellis Island of the West
  • Behind the Scenes
  • Ancestry.com: New Beta Tools
  • Enhanced DNA Features
  • Illuminating Family History
  • Marshalling the Troops 
  • Case Study: Civil War Soldiers
  • Scribe and Seek - MyHeritage’s new Scribe AI tool.
  • Writing a New Narrative 
  • Whose broad stripes and bright stars - a history of US expansion in six landmark events.
  • Funeral Home Records
  • Retaking a DNA Test
  • Finding Patriots through the Daughters of the American Revolution
  • Cemetery records at a glance

Sunday, September 6, 2026

Week 36 (Sept. 3-9): More Than a Name - #52Ancestors

Every family has their popular names - names that appear generation after generation regardless of fashion, forming a family pattern, becoming more than just a name.  There were also fads among names - copying that of the current Monarch and their family, for example, as well as using a traditional name common amongst ancestors.

Family naming patterns were frequent in many families, although they are by no means a reliable way of predicting the names of children.  Traditionally, the first son would be named for the paternal grandfather, the second son for the maternal grandfather and the third son for the father.  For females, the first daughter would be named for the maternal grandmother, the second daughter for the paternal grandmother and the third daughter for the mother.  Providing, of course, these names were not the same.  

Then, there are the families that seemed to delight in using unusual names for their children, and those who followed popular fads.  Horatio, for example, made a brief surge in popularity after Nelson's victory at Trafalgar.  Similarly, Adolf disappeared from German communities after World War 2.

In the 1700s the top five names for each gender were :
Boys - John, William, Thomas, Richard and James
Girls - Mary, Elizabeth, Ann, Sarah and Jane

In the 1800s the top five names for each gender were :
Boys - John, William, James, George and Charles
Girls - Mary, Anna, Emma, Elizabeth and Margaret

There was also the tendency, unusual as it may seem to us today, of reusing the name of a child who had died.  In the 1700's and 1800's this occurs frequently in my family tree, with the name of a child who has died in infancy being reused for the next child of the same gender born to the family.  

This can make research quite tricky, especially when a popular name has been used by several branches of a family.  In my Irish Mulholland family, for example, four brothers all named their first son James, after their father.  One child died at 2 days old and the name was reused 18 months later.  This meant there were five children named James Mulholland, born within five years and a few miles of each other.  Sorting out which records belong with which child is quite a challenge.

Then two of them married women named Mary.

Sunday, August 30, 2026

Week 35 (Aug. 27-Sept. 2): A Spot on the Map - #52Ancestors

A particular 'Spot on the Map' would be the sheep station called 'Para' on which I was born.  My father worked there as a stockman for approximately 20 years, and my mother became station cook after their marriage.

Para Homestead

My sister and I were both born during our parents last years at the station.  Just before we reached school age, our family moved to the small town of Moama, where we lived for the rest of my childhood.

Woolshed, clean and ready for shearing

I have only a few clear memories of our time at the station.  I remember the homestead beside the Darling River, the creaking verandahs and gum trees all around. Trailing my father into the old woolshed, the smell of sheep and wool overpowering.

1971 flood, from the back doors of the homestead

My family was resident at the station during the 1971 flood, an event my mother has described to me, during which the road from the homestead to the highway was cut by floodwater for several weeks, isolating us all.

Both my parents were fond of telling stories about their time on the station, which both looked back on with fondness and nostalgia.

Monday, August 24, 2026

Week 34 (Aug. 20-26): Long-lasting - #52Ancestors

Amongst my family history treasures are copies of some very old photographs.  Photos of my ancestors dating from the early days of photography are rare, and the images are surprisingly long lasting. Below are two of the older photos I have in my collection.  I only have digital copies that I have printed out, but a good digital copy is still very worth having.  

Isobelle Mary Green (nee Argent)

Isabelle Mary Green was born 1 June 1858 and dies 7 March 1936.

Sarah Jane Pike (nee Hart)

Sarah Jane Pike was born 17 August 1856 and died 3 January 1933.

I'm not sure exactly when these photos were taken - unfortunately there is no detail included on the originals or on the digital copies, but they have lasted for at least a century.

Wednesday, August 19, 2026

Family Tree UK Magazine September 2026

The latest issue of Family Tree UK magazine is now available free online for Campaspe Library members via our subscription to Libby eMagazines.


Inside this month's issue : 

  • Thousands of Indian First World War soldiers remembered
  • Rare copy of the Declaration of Independence found at The National Archives
  • Do you have a DNA connection to Ötzi the Iceman?
  • Knitted wartime exhibition extended due to popularity
  • English Heritage encourage us to send posctards this summer
  • Marriages - Looking beyond the official record
  • What did your ancestors do in War Weapons Week? 
  • A practical guide to DNA Painter
  • Part 4 From Home to Horizon 
  • Poor Law Settlement disputes
  • Recording your research effectively 
  • Building confidence in DNA testing


Monday, August 17, 2026

Who Do You Think You Are Magazine September 2026

The latest issue of Who Do You Think You Are magazine is now available free online for Campaspe Library members via our subscription to Libby eMagazines.

Inside this month's issue : 

  • Irish website adds 190,000 new records to its collection
  • New house stories website launches
  • Crowd Cymru wins archive volunteering award
  • Ancestry adds Wiltshire electoral registers
  • TheGenealogist releases early American records
  • Clean living -  Alan Crosby explores soap's journey from taxed necessity to fragrant luxury
  • Tales of the Unexpected • Family secrets come in all shapes and sizes
  • What are the odds? How to use WATO
  • How to set up a private tree on Ancestry 
  • 6 resources to help you with unexpected results
  • Tips and tricks for identifying matches with no trees 
  • Researching Irish Canadians 
  • My relatives were on board the RMS Lusitania 
  • Secret Service Ancestors
  • Caribbean Ancestry
  • More great websites - Online resources you can't afford to miss


Sunday, August 16, 2026

Week 33 (Aug. 13-19): Multiples - #52Ancestors

The prompt 'Multiple' bring to mind the marital history of Thomas May, my 3xGreat Grandfather.  Thomas married a total of 5 times, losing several wives in childbirth.

Thomas May was born 20 September 1762 in West Mersea, Essex and was baptised 16 October 1762 at the church of St Peter and St Paul.  He died on 27 February 1843 in West Mersea and was buried on 7 March 1843.  He outlived all 5 wives.

Wife 1 – Elizabeth Godwin
Born 1763 Thorrington, Essex
Married 27 March 1787 Thorrington, Essex
Died 25 August 1790 West Mersea, Essex
Children – Thomas, Edward

Wife 2 – Sarah Sadler
Born 1775 West Mersea, Essex
Married 1792 West Mersea, Essex
Died 7 January 1799 West Mersea, Essex
Children – Betsey (Elizabeth), Sarah, Hannah, John Tickell

Wife 3 – Henrietta Stevens
Born Unknown
Married 12 May 1801 St Mary, Lambeth, Surrey
Died 2 May 1812 West Mersea
Children – Henry John, Mary

Wife 4 – Susannah Balls Green
Born 7 June 1770 West Bergholt, Essex
Married 10 November 1818 Fordham, Essex
Died 11 February 1828 West Mersea, Essex
Children - Nil

Wife 5 – Mary Ann Pullen
Born 13 October 1791 West Mersea, Essex
Married 9 August 1829 West Mersea, Essex
Died 1838 West Mersea, Essex
Children – Edward, Sophia Mary Ann

It is his 4th wife, Susannah Green (nee Balls), where the relationships become truly convoluted.  Susannah's son Isaac (from her first husband John Green) was married to Thomas's eldest daughter Betsy (Elizabeth).  So Thomas became not only father-in-law but also step-father to Isaac, and his new wife Susannah became mother-in-law and step-mother to Betsy.

Monday, August 10, 2026

Week 32 (Aug. 6-12): Neighbors and Community - #52Ancestors

Wherever they lived, our ancestors were a part of their local community, although finding records of how they interacted with their neighbours can be sparse.  Census records are one resource for finding out about our ancestors' neighbours.

For example, below is the 1851 census for Isaac Green.


Isaac Green is a farmer, age 58, living in Fordham, Essex.  This census record tells me that his household consistes of his wife Betsy 57, son William 17, and servants Maryann Blakeley 45, Harriet Clark 30 and Betsy Woodward 17. 

If you look at the household directly beneath Isaac's in the census, you find Edmund Woodward 59, wife Rebecca Woodward 55 and mother (actually mother-in-law) Rebecca Fairclough 77.  Edmund is a labourer - and yes, he works for Isaac Green.  Isaac's servant Betsy Woodward is Edmund's eldest daughter - shown in the 1841 census - who has gone into service up in the big house.  Following through the census, Betsy Woodward stays on working for Isaac Green for decades, through the 1861, 1871 and 1881 censuses until Isaac's death in 1882.

It would be all too easy to overlook this information and simply concentrate on the main family, noting family members and occupations and overlooking all that lovely extra information about Isaac's ties to his neighborhood.